I have a friend who is an incredibly gracious soul, creative spirit, and has amazing insight into so very many things.
Today she pointed out to me, kindly and delicately mind you, that on a different blog I could be doing things better. She even offered to help me in my conundrums and with the details that I hadn't considered. I hadn't considered that anyone might really read the thing, so never gave it enough consideration.
My gift? Accepting her generous offer of help. Sometimes to change yourself, you have to ask for help or accept it when it is offered.
With hat in hand and great enthusiasm, I thank her for her support, her help, and her generosity.